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Southern California love coach, writer, blogger, and creator of the Allison Loves YouTube channel. 

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NO, I DON'T WANT TO COME SEE YOU

We both swiped right. Check!  We chatted and felt we have some things in common. Check! We exchanged numbers to learn more about each other. Check! The texting begins....

You: We should meet
Me: Indeed
You: I'm ready
Me: Make a plan
You: Plan. Come see me. 
Me: Nope.


First of all, what does "I'm ready" mean? You're ready for me to get dolled up, jump in my car and drive to the house of a man I've never met?

Second, why do I even need to tell you to make a plan. Are you new? Have you not ever learned how to ask a…Read more
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DON'T PRAY FOR ORLANDO

I woke up this morning to my best friend texting me about a shooting in Orlando, Florida. "50 people killed" F-I-F-T-Y!! Plus at least fifty more severely injured. These are people. Over a hundred human beings with parents, partners, kids and friends. Yes it happened at a gay club. Yes it's Pride month. So what. These are people. People that had thoughts, feelings, struggles, victories, goals and dreams. And now, gone. Gone because of intolerance. To make it super clear that means: Unwillingness to accept…

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5 REASONS SELFIES ARE GOOD FOR YOU


Recently I read a few articles about how 'selfies' are selfish, narcissistic...even psychopathic and I really disagree. I mean there are always going to be extremes to anything people get involved in but to label all selfie takers as selfish is rude and judgmental.

Let me take you for a spin down the road of self-love and give you another view of the Selfie.

WHY I SELFIE 

1. Because, ME! I don't know anyone on the planet that hasn't has a good deal of negativity, self-doubt or insecurities in their life…Read more
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STOP BOYCOTTING SEX

Oh Excedrin, I want to hate this commercial but the truth is - far too many women act this way!!  

As soon as this lady says, 'Not gonna happen' my immediate response (out loud) was WHY NOT??? 

First off, you're married (or partnered or whatever) - GET SOME and get it often!! 

Ladies, ladies - c'mon now. If this is you, you need to STOP. 


Stop buying into the lie that sex is:
  1. For special occasions (do it twice on special occasions!)
  2. Boring (you're doing it wrong)
  3. A chore (how can you compare
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RELATIONSHIP COACHING: WHAT IS IS AND HOW CAN IT HELP ME?

 
A relationship coach is a coach who specializes in helping their clients achieve deeper more fulfilling connections with the people in their lives. In simple terms relationship coaching is about human relationships and how to make them better. A relationship coach will generally help a client sort through all life issues but pay special attention to issues surrounding other people. A relationship coach can help a client simplify what is important in each relationship. As the client gains clarity about what…Read more
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